From: Wickeddoll� on

"mack" ..
>
> "Scott in Florida"
"Truckdude" >
>> wrote:
>>
>>>
>>>"Cathy F." ...
>>>>>
>>>>> <programmer(a)att.net> wrote in message
>>>>> news:1189008929.646924.253950(a)w3g2000hsg.googlegroups.com...
>>>>>> My wife took our 2000 Camry CE in for repair due to a "muffler noise"
>>>>>> The dealer replace a front exhaust pipe assembly for $1200. Why so
>>>>>> much?
>>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> Pardon me, but why on Earth is your wife handling car repairs?
>>>>
>>>> Huh??? Why wouldn't/couldn't she?
>>>>
>>>> Maybe he wasn't free for the day to take it in, & she was, etc.
>>>>
>>>> Cathy
>>>>
>>>>
>>>
>>>It was only taken in for an annoying noise. Anyway, I guess it all
>>>depends
>>>on how we were raised.
>>>
>>
>> So you were raised to look down at women?
>>
>> You being a nurse should understand that we men get to die before the
>> women. IMHO it is VERY important to make sure your woman can live
>> perfectly well without you....and that includes knowing how to deal
>> with car dealer service departments.
>>
>> --
>> Scott in Florida
>
> Wonders will never cease! I'm agreeing with Scott for maybe the second
> time this year!
> He's quite right about teaching wives to become smart widows. Too many
> women lose their
> husbands and then have to figure out how to balance the checkbook and a
> hundred other things that
> their husbands always took care of. The wise husband educates his wife
> (without telling her the reason)
> to become a sole survivor when he's gone.

Likewise, men should be taught basic domestic survival. When I first joined
the Air Force, I can't tell you how many young guys had no clue of how to do
their own laundry, cook, etc. Ridiculous!
>
> BTW, I think Cathy is a teacher, not a nurse....that's Natalie.
>

I think he means Truck, who is also a nurse :-)

Natalie


From: Cathy F. on

"mack" <mackerel(a)dslextreme.com> wrote in message
news:13duhpiiucj5fbc(a)corp.supernews.com...
>
> "Scott in Florida" <Justtofakeoutliberals(a)yahoo.com> wrote in message
> news:50fud39djgr9fbgodns04pm9or6l3glsi3(a)4ax.com...
>> On Wed, 05 Sep 2007 22:32:04 GMT, "Truckdude" <shrub(a)thadeecider.com>
>> wrote:
>>
>>>
>>>"Cathy F." <clfrclfr(a)adelphiadotdashdot.net> wrote in message
>>>news:epCdnaPeL8ALu0LbRVn_vw(a)giganews.com...
>>>>
>>>> "Truckdude" <shrub(a)thadeecider.com> wrote in message
>>>> news:pfEDi.1691$h06.1435(a)trnddc03...
>>>>>
>>>>> <programmer(a)att.net> wrote in message
>>>>> news:1189008929.646924.253950(a)w3g2000hsg.googlegroups.com...
>>>>>> My wife took our 2000 Camry CE in for repair due to a "muffler noise"
>>>>>> The dealer replace a front exhaust pipe assembly for $1200. Why so
>>>>>> much?
>>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> Pardon me, but why on Earth is your wife handling car repairs?
>>>>
>>>> Huh??? Why wouldn't/couldn't she?
>>>>
>>>> Maybe he wasn't free for the day to take it in, & she was, etc.
>>>>
>>>> Cathy
>>>>
>>>>
>>>
>>>It was only taken in for an annoying noise. Anyway, I guess it all
>>>depends
>>>on how we were raised.
>>>
>>
>> So you were raised to look down at women?

I *think* he's coming at it from a slightly different angle: being the
ultimate gentleman sort of thing. But there's such a thing as carrying that
way too far - to a woman's detriment.

>> You being a nurse should understand that we men get to die before the
>> women. IMHO it is VERY important to make sure your woman can live
>> perfectly well without you....and that includes knowing how to deal
>> with car dealer service departments.
>>
>> --
>> Scott in Florida
>
> Wonders will never cease! I'm agreeing with Scott for maybe the second
> time this year!

Yeah, me too. ;-)

> He's quite right about teaching wives to become smart widows. Too many
> women lose their
> husbands and then have to figure out how to balance the checkbook and a
> hundred other things that
> their husbands always took care of. The wise husband educates his wife
> (without telling her the reason)
> to become a sole survivor when he's gone.

Yeah, see my post about the woman who wouldn't (couldn't?? - I hope it isn't
*that* bad!) even peel her own orange for her lunch... never put gas into
her own car... her husband does it *all*. And she isn't the only woman I
know of who's in that sort of situation. Holy crow. At least they seem to
be vastly outnumbered by the more independently functional women. ;-)

>
> BTW, I think Cathy is a teacher, not a nurse....that's Natalie.

Yeah, I am & she is; but Truckdude is a nurse.

Cathy


From: Cathy F. on

"Wickeddoll�" <wickeddoll1958NoEffingSpam(a)yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:fbn1t6.1ag.1(a)news.evilcabal.org...
>
> "mack" ..
>>
>> "Scott in Florida"
> "Truckdude" >
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>>>
>>>>"Cathy F." ...
>>>>>>
>>>>>> <programmer(a)att.net> wrote in message
>>>>>> news:1189008929.646924.253950(a)w3g2000hsg.googlegroups.com...
>>>>>>> My wife took our 2000 Camry CE in for repair due to a "muffler
>>>>>>> noise"
>>>>>>> The dealer replace a front exhaust pipe assembly for $1200. Why so
>>>>>>> much?
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Pardon me, but why on Earth is your wife handling car repairs?
>>>>>
>>>>> Huh??? Why wouldn't/couldn't she?
>>>>>
>>>>> Maybe he wasn't free for the day to take it in, & she was, etc.
>>>>>
>>>>> Cathy
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>
>>>>It was only taken in for an annoying noise. Anyway, I guess it all
>>>>depends
>>>>on how we were raised.
>>>>
>>>
>>> So you were raised to look down at women?
>>>
>>> You being a nurse should understand that we men get to die before the
>>> women. IMHO it is VERY important to make sure your woman can live
>>> perfectly well without you....and that includes knowing how to deal
>>> with car dealer service departments.
>>>
>>> --
>>> Scott in Florida
>>
>> Wonders will never cease! I'm agreeing with Scott for maybe the second
>> time this year!
>> He's quite right about teaching wives to become smart widows. Too many
>> women lose their
>> husbands and then have to figure out how to balance the checkbook and a
>> hundred other things that
>> their husbands always took care of. The wise husband educates his wife
>> (without telling her the reason)
>> to become a sole survivor when he's gone.
>
> Likewise, men should be taught basic domestic survival. When I first
> joined the Air Force, I can't tell you how many young guys had no clue of
> how to do their own laundry, cook, etc. Ridiculous!

Yep. There were some guys in my dorm (it was co-ed) whose mothers had given
them lessons before sending them off to college, & then there were others
who were pretty much at a loss in the laundry room & needed on-the-spot
training. Most men/husbands I know share in the cooking, laundry, cleaning,
& I know one husband who frequently does the ironing.

>> BTW, I think Cathy is a teacher, not a nurse....that's Natalie.
>>
>
> I think he means Truck, who is also a nurse :-)

Yep.

Cathy

>
> Natalie
>


From: Wickeddoll� on

"Cathy F." ...
>>>
>>> "Truckdude" ...
>>>>
>>>> <programmer(a)att.net> wrote in message
>>>>> My wife took our 2000 Camry CE in for repair due to a "muffler noise"
>>>>> The dealer replace a front exhaust pipe assembly for $1200. Why so
>>>>> much?
>>>>>
>>>>
>>>> Pardon me, but why on Earth is your wife handling car repairs?
>>>
>>> Huh??? Why wouldn't/couldn't she?
>>>
>>> Maybe he wasn't free for the day to take it in, & she was, etc.
>>>
>>> Cathy
>>>
>>>
>>
>> It was only taken in for an annoying noise. Anyway, I guess it all
>> depends on how we were raised.
>
> I truly appreciate it when men act as gentlemen. OTOH, I also don't want
> to be seen as a "dumb broad" who can't - or shouldn't - do many things,
> some of which may be formerly seen as "taking care of the little lady"
> stuff, under my own power.
>
> Cathy

I met hubby when I was 27, married him at 29, so I'd been taking care of
myself for 9 years before he was in my life. His parents are Polish
immigrants, where farm folk do everything, so he was very domestically hip
(five kids with two multi-job parents made it absolutely necessary!)

We try to teach our kids as much about life as possible.

Natalie


From: Truckdude on

"mack" <mackerel(a)dslextreme.com> wrote in message
news:13duhpiiucj5fbc(a)corp.supernews.com...
>
> "Scott in Florida" <Justtofakeoutliberals(a)yahoo.com> wrote in message
> news:50fud39djgr9fbgodns04pm9or6l3glsi3(a)4ax.com...
>> On Wed, 05 Sep 2007 22:32:04 GMT, "Truckdude" <shrub(a)thadeecider.com>
>> wrote:
>>
>>>
>>>"Cathy F." <clfrclfr(a)adelphiadotdashdot.net> wrote in message
>>>news:epCdnaPeL8ALu0LbRVn_vw(a)giganews.com...
>>>>
>>>> "Truckdude" <shrub(a)thadeecider.com> wrote in message
>>>> news:pfEDi.1691$h06.1435(a)trnddc03...
>>>>>
>>>>> <programmer(a)att.net> wrote in message
>>>>> news:1189008929.646924.253950(a)w3g2000hsg.googlegroups.com...
>>>>>> My wife took our 2000 Camry CE in for repair due to a "muffler noise"
>>>>>> The dealer replace a front exhaust pipe assembly for $1200. Why so
>>>>>> much?
>>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> Pardon me, but why on Earth is your wife handling car repairs?
>>>>
>>>> Huh??? Why wouldn't/couldn't she?
>>>>
>>>> Maybe he wasn't free for the day to take it in, & she was, etc.
>>>>
>>>> Cathy
>>>>
>>>>
>>>
>>>It was only taken in for an annoying noise. Anyway, I guess it all
>>>depends
>>>on how we were raised.
>>>
>>
>> So you were raised to look down at women?
>>
>> You being a nurse should understand that we men get to die before the
>> women. IMHO it is VERY important to make sure your woman can live
>> perfectly well without you....and that includes knowing how to deal
>> with car dealer service departments.
>>
>> --
>> Scott in Florida
>
> Wonders will never cease! I'm agreeing with Scott for maybe the second
> time this year!
> He's quite right about teaching wives to become smart widows. Too many
> women lose their
> husbands and then have to figure out how to balance the checkbook and a
> hundred other things that
> their husbands always took care of. The wise husband educates his wife
> (without telling her the reason)
> to become a sole survivor when he's gone.
>
> BTW, I think Cathy is a teacher, not a nurse....that's Natalie.
>

Scott was addressing me and he is correct. (hey, it can happen!) Maybe I
should change my posting name to "Truckdude, RN"


First  |  Prev  |  Next  |  Last
Pages: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7
Prev: P0141 still being set
Next: Horn doesn't work